The domino effect…


QUOTE OF THE DAY: Your next step is simple.  You are the first domino ~ Gary Keller 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: This week in Toastmasters, one of our members hit a home run with an Icebreaker speech about being comfortable with being uncomfortable.  Her main points were:

  • Start. – That’s half the battle.
  • Don’t quit – You either succeed or you fail, remind yourself why are you doing this?
  •  Push past your comfort zone.
  • Embrace the suck.
  • Be around like-minded people.
  • Recognize your improvements.
  •  Repetition.

Right after this speech, I was looking at my email from intelligent change which is an email list I have from using the 5-minute journal.  And I was shocked to see a TED talk with the same title. 

If you are interested in that here is the link

Get Comfortable With Being Uncomfortable by Luvvie Ajayi

In the talk, she mentions how she likes to be the first domino in a change.  Because being the first domino can have a great effective change.  It can be risky but it’s worth the risk you take in order to bring about change for other people.   

This week on Friday I hit 250 check-ins at Camp Gladiator. 
That’s 250 hours of work.
That’s 250 decisions for my health.
That’s 250 times over the past 2 years I have decided to choose to wake up early and go to a 5:00 a.m. or 6:45 a.m. workout. 
That’s 250 times of awesome.
And 250 times of fun and encouragement and high fives. 

That all started because I chose to be the first domino.  I chose to wake up and to commit to my health and well being. 

Also on Friday night, I went to an event by Kyle Cease who is a comedian and transformational coach.  It was pretty cool.  I laughed a lot.  I learned somethings.  He talked about how meditation in the morning had changed his life.  He just sits in silence for an hour first thing in the morning.  He talked about living from your heart and living in the moment.  And being more present with yourself.  We did an exercise where we talked about how our life would be different one month from now, 6 months from now and 1 year from now if we applied some of the principles he was teaching in our lives.   He mentioned how talking about things in the past tense makes it like if it has already happened.  That tricks your brain into figuring out a way to actually do it.  It was pretty neat.   


1) I will be the first domino today and create positive change in my life.
2) The positive effects in my life create a domino effect for more positive change. 
3) I chose to be grateful for the gift of today. 

Our lives are but specks of dust falling through the fingers of time.


Our lives are but specks of dust falling through the fingers of time. Like sands of the hourglass, so are the days of our lives.  ~ Socrates

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: I searched through some hourglass quotes today and decided on this one.  This past Columbus Day weekend my family took a trip down to Rockport to visit the beach.  It was rather cold when we got there.  Emily kept saying, “Dad, isn’t it weird that we are at the beach wearing our jackets?”  I said, “Yes that is weird!

On Saturday, we were able to spend some time in our swimsuits at the beach and we were playing in the sand.  I would make a sand sculpture or moat or something and then Anna would take some water from a bucket and dump it on the structure.  I would then make another one and Anna would do the same thing.  And the third time this happened she said, “Dad how come you keep moving over and making sandcastles?”  I said, “Because every time I make one you dump water on it so I have to start over.” 

Finally, we were able to create one together.  But this got me thinking.  I was thinking our lives are kind of like sand castles or sand or hour glasses.  We try to make things out of our lives, or we try to keep our lives together, or we try to keep doing things the way we have always been doing them.  But the things is, our lives will just slip away like the sand that slips through our fingers.  We try to mold the sand but the waves just kind of wash them away. 

Hopefully the more life we live, the more clearly we see. 

“The more sand has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it.” ~ Niccolo Machiavelli

This Monday may you be mindful that your life is like the sand of the hourglass.  It will slip away and flow through the hourglass no matter what you do.  So enjoy the day.


1) I am feeling healthy and strong today. 
2) I have all that I need to make this a great day of my life.
3) I am filled with gratitude and kindness for another day on this earth. 

Obstacles don’t have to stop you.


QUOTE OF THE DAY: “ Obstacles don’t have to stop you . If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.” – Michael Jordan


The above quote is inspired from by this song that I heard while I was in a spin class on Friday.

Sia- The Greatest

Some of the song lyrics are below: Uh-oh, running out of breath, but I
Oh, I, I got stamina
Uh-oh, running now, I close my eyes
Well, oh, I got stamina
And uh-oh, I see another mountain to climb
But I, I, I got stamina
Uh-oh, I need another lover, be mine
Cause I, I, I got stamina
  Don’t give up, I won’t give up
Don’t give up, no no no
Don’t give up, I won’t give up
Don’t give up, no no no
  I’m free to be the greatest, I’m alive
I’m free to be the greatest here tonight, the greatest
The greatest, the greatest alive
The greatest, the greatest alive

So stop today for a brief moment or minute or two and reflect on some ways you are not going to give up on your dreams and your desires for this life.  Maybe let the song play and listen to the lyrics.  Maybe journal about something and let your thoughts go on the paper.  Maybe meditate on the meaning of your brief life. 

May you find peace.
May you find laughter.
May you find strength for your journey. 


1) I am being sculpted into the best version of myself.
2) I don’t give up on my happiness or my growth.

Find your gift


QUOTE OF THE DAY: The meaning of life is to find your gift.  The purpose of life is to give it away.  ~Pablo Picasso 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: One of my gifts is the gift of encouragement.  I can generally encourage people pretty easily and in a way that they specifically need it.  I try to generally do this every time I post on this blog.  And it is my hope that you are encouraged when you read this every Monday.  If you need some additional encouragement let me know. I would be happy send you so more encouragement.

Do you know what your gifting is? 

Do you try and give it away? 

Let me know your thoughts on this quote or any of the others on this blog.  Feel free to comment below.


1) Every day I expand and share my special talents with others.
2) I acknowledge my strengths and use these daily to my best ability.
3) I am incredibly grateful for all my talents and abilities.